Andi,
Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback on the Front-Closure T-Back WonderWire Bra in Soft Lilac. I'm sorry to hear about the sizing issues you experienced with your usual 36DD size, and I completely understand your 2-star rating given the fit challenges with both the cups and band.
It sounds like this particular style may run smaller than other Glamorise bras you're familiar with, which can be frustrating when you're used to consistent sizing across our styles. I understand the confusion about whether to size up in the band or cup - that's definitely helpful feedback for us to consider making clearer in our sizing guidance.
I'm sorry the larger size options aren't currently available for you to try. I'll be sure to pass your comments about the sizing inconsistency along to our product team, as this type of feedback helps us work to improve fit consistency across our different bra styles.
If you decide this bra isn't the right fit for you, you're welcome to return it within 40 days for a full refund using our Return Portal: https://returns.glamorise.com/#/
We're always happy to help if you have more questions.
Lisa